Being in a long distance relationship (LDR) is a challenge that requires patience, trust, and a lot of creativity. While you can't physically hold your partner's hand, technology has made it easier than ever to share experiences and build memories.
At Bloom, we've helped thousands of LDR couples stay connected through our app. Here are 25 of the best long distance date ideas that go beyond just a standard video call.
1. The Real-Time Doodle Session
One of the most intimate ways to connect is through shared creation. Use Bloom's Live Doodle feature to draw together in real-time. You can take turns adding to a drawing or try to draw each other's portraits. It’s silly, fun, and feels like you’re sharing a physical piece of paper.
2. Virtual Cooking Challenge
Pick a recipe you both haven't tried before, set up your phones in the kitchen, and cook "together." Once the meal is done, have a candlelit dinner over video call. It brings a sense of domesticity to the distance.
3. Shared Mood Tracking & Widgets
Sometimes the best "date" is just knowing your partner is there. Use Bloom's Home Screen Widgets to see your partner's mood and a live photo of them throughout the day. It’s like a constant, silent "I love you" on your phone.
4. Future Letter Sealing Ceremony
Write a letter to your future selves using Bloom's Future Letters feature. Decide on a date to open them—maybe your next visit or your anniversary. Sealing them away together creates a shared promise for the future.
"Distance is just a test of how far love can travel."
5. Watch Party with a Twist
Don't just watch a movie; use a browser extension to sync your screens. To make it a real date, order the same snacks or takeout so you can "share" a meal while you watch.
6. The "Question a Day" Ritual
Consistency is key in LDRs. Use the Daily Questions in Bloom to learn something new about each other every single day. Over a year, that's 365 new insights into your partner's heart.
7. Virtual Museum Tours
Many world-class museums offer free virtual tours. Share your screen and "walk" through the Louvre or the Smithsonian together, discussing the art as you go.
How to Make LDR Date Nights Successful
The secret to a great long distance date isn't the activity itself—it's the intentionality. Treat it like a real date: get dressed up, minimize distractions, and focus entirely on your partner.
Top 3 LDR Apps for 2026:
- Bloom: For daily connection, games, and widgets.
- Locket: For sharing photos directly to the home screen.
- Paired: For relationship quizzes and health checks.
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